How can I smartly make out which kind of delivery my obs/gyn prefer for me? Pls read?

well if you want a vaginal birth then you should go with that i mean its your first kid as long its safe and most of the time its much safer and i totally agree with you. my sister is 39 weeks pregnant and oh man is it scare i go to some of her appointments with her so i kinda know some stuff but im no expert but i think its important to see what the doctor thinks and ask her like for example when would you send some one to get the c-sect or whats your opinion on c-sections and then next time you can ask about natural birth. and don't be afraid to check out some of the other doctors my sister had a man doctor and was uncomfortable with it so she would switch and see other ones and she found a perfect doctor for her and if you don't wan to ask so many questions at once then save some for next time. well i CONGRATULATE you on the kiddo and hope you the best hope i helped a little. And don't be afraid i know some doctors want more money so they do the s- section so get to the point and tell her/him what you want i mean your the one giving birth as long its safe for the baby and concerns the baby's safety.